Beliefs

I did some group coaching last night with some amazing Mary Kay consultants. We did some work on self limiting beliefs and creating new beliefs that are self expanding!

Here are the basics:
Write down what your situation is - ie; cold calling or my child with an eating disorder will never get well

Then make this chart and fill it out in the order shown:
Old Belief Behavior Outcome/Result
1 2 3


New Belief Behavior Outcome/Result
6 5 4


Then ask yourself: What new behaviors are you committing to tonight? How will you stay accountable for them?

Let me know what you find out and if you need accountability, call me.

What do parents of a child with an eating disorder need?

Today I am looking for your feedback on this question. This month I am starting to work with a business mentor who will help me bring my services to many more parents impacted by eating disorders.

I say parents because she wants me to narrow it down, I am very aware that there are sisters, wives, brothers, friends, etc who are seriously impacted by the nightmare of loving someone with an eating disorder.

I would love to hear what else describes this person and what other needs a parent of a child with an eating disorder might have. Please comment or send me an email.

Here is what I came up with:
Parents impacted by a child with an eating disorder that I can serve are:

• Female
• Spiritual value based families balancing work and family time
• Married
• age 35-55
• panicked and fearful about their child’s eating disorder
• looking for resources and skills for saving their families
• believe in coaching
• love reading self-help books
• value being pro-active about maintaining health
• value education
• have graduated from college
• non-smokers
• feeling hopeless about how to help their child with an ed
• Don’t know where to turn for help for the ed
• concerned that their child will die
• want my services to give them answers and calm
• need help coping with their anxiety about child’s ed
• need help understanding basics of what makes someone with an ed tick
• want to reclaim their joy and peace while child is sick with ed
• want to save their marriage that is being impacted by the child with ed
• are afraid this ed will destroy their own health and career
• worry what this ed is doing to their other children

• searching for help for families impacted by eating disorders, how to parent a child with an eating disorder

• want someone to talk to who understands the nightmare and frustration of parenting a child with an eating disorder